Update on life

Hey there! Just wanted to share a little update on life since I've been MIA. The holidays were good—I’m super grateful for the time spent with family. I jumped into a relationship at the start of the year, but it didn't last long. I've realized that if I’m not being respected or supported, it’s just not worth it. Life’s too short for toxic people. (Literally) On the bright side, it gave me the boost I needed to get back out there and put myself out in the “dating” scene again. (We will see how long that lasts 🤣) Honestly, if I can make even one person’s day a little better, that’s a win for me, even if it’s just for a bit.

On a sad note, I had to say goodbye to my nephew as he’s heading out west for a cowboy adventure without me. I’ll join him in May, so that’s something to look forward to! 🐴🤠

As for my health, I’m feeling pretty good, especially these last couple of weeks. I can finally breathe properly again, and the sun’s been shining more. I did make a trip to Boston for some appointments, but overall, I’m doing well. I’ll share more about my health next time. Thanks for taking the time to read this. Life’s been quite the ride. -Mel





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